Full-time traveller, part-time worker, professional dreamer

Zainuddin Omar

Zainuddin Omar

Seorang Jurutera Professional (P.Eng) berasal dari Parit Jawa, Muar, Johor kini memenuhi masa dengan mengembara keseluruh dunia mencari ibrah. Beliau mempunyai 40 tahun pengalaman kembara dan mula mengembara pada usia 17 tahun.

Between now and death: 40 life lessons one should learn early on

  1. It’s time to use the money you saved up. Use it and enjoy it. Don’t just keep it for those who may have no notion of the sacrifices you made to get it. Remember there is nothing more dangerous than a son or daughter-in-law with big ideas for your hard-earned capital. Warning: This is also a bad time for investments, even if it seems wonderful or fool-proof. They only bring problems and worries. This is a time for you to enjoy some peace and quiet.
  2. Stop worrying about the financial situation of your children and grandchildren, and don’t feel bad spending your money on yourself. You’ve taken care of them for many years, and you’ve taught them what you could. You gave them an education, food, shelter and support. The responsibility is now theirs to earn their own money.
  3. Keep a healthy life, without great physical effort. Do moderate exercise (like walking every day), eat well and get your sleep. It’s easy to become sick, and it gets harder to remain healthy. That is why you need to keep yourself in good shape and be aware of your medical and physical needs. Keep in touch with your doctor, do tests even when you’re feeling well. Stay informed.
  4. Always buy the best, most beautiful items for your significant other. The key goal is to enjoy your money with your partner. One day one of you will miss the other, and the money will not provide any comfort then, enjoy it together.
  5. Don’t stress over the little things. You’ve already overcome so much in your life. You have good memories and bad ones, but the important thing is the present. Don’t let the past drag you down and don’t let the future frighten you. Feel good in the now. Small issues will soon be forgotten.
  6. Regardless of age, always keep love alive. Love your partner, love life, love your family, love your neighbor and remember: “A man is not old as long as he has intelligence and affection.”
  7. Be proud, both inside and out. Don’t stop going to your hair salon or barber, do your nails, go to the dermatologist and the dentist, keep your perfumes and creams well stocked. When you are well-maintained on the outside, it seeps in, making you feel proud and strong.
  8. Don’t lose sight of fashion trends for your age, but keep your own sense of style. There’s nothing worse than an older person trying to wear the current fashion among youngsters. You’ve developed your own sense of what looks good on you – keep it and be proud of it. It’s part of who you are.
  9. ALWAYS stay up-to-date. Read newspapers, watch the news. Go online and read what people are saying. Make sure you have an active email account and try to use some of those social networks. You’ll be surprised what old friends you’ll meet.
  10. Respect the younger generation and their opinions. They may not have the same ideals as you, but they are the future, and will take the world in their direction. Give advice, not criticism, and try to remind them that yesterday’s wisdom still applies today.
  11. Never use the phrase: “In my time.” Your time is now. As long as you’re alive, you are part of this time.
  12. Some people embrace their golden years, while others become bitter and surly. Life is too short to waste your days on the latter. Spend your time with positive, cheerful people, it’ll rub off on you and your days will seem that much better. Spending your time with bitter people will make you feel older and harder to be around.
  13. Do not surrender to the temptation of living with your children or grandchildren (if you have a financial choice, that is). Sure, being surrounded by family sounds great, but we all need our privacy. They need theirs and you need yours. Even then, do so only if you feel you really need the help or do not want to live by yourself
  14. Don’t abandon your hobbies. If you don’t have any, make new ones. You can travel, hike, cook, read, dance. You can adopt a cat or a dog, grow a kitchen garden, play cards, checkers, chess, dominoes, golf.
  15. Try to go. Get out of the house, meet people you haven’t seen in a while, experience something new (or something old). The important thing is to leave the house from time to time. Go to museums, go walk through a park. Get out there.
  16. Speak in courteous tones and try not to complain or criticize too much unless you really need to. Try to accept situations as they are.
  17. Pain and discomfort go hand in hand with getting older. Try not to dwell on them but accept them as a part of the life.
  18. If you’ve been offended by someone – forgive them. If you’ve offended someone – apologize. Don’t drag around resentment with you. It only serves to make you sad and bitter. It doesn’t matter who was right. Someone once said: “Holding a grudge is like taking poison and expecting the other person to die.” Don’t take that poison. Forgive, forget and move on with your life.
  19. Laugh. Laugh away your worries Remember, you are one of the lucky ones. You managed to have a life, a long one. Many never get to this age, never get to experience a full life.
  20. Choose your friends and life partner carefully as they can make or break you. Avoid bad relationship.
  21. Spend more time with family, friends and hobbies rather than at the office. Life is not all about working.
  22. Don’t re-live your anger again and again and again. What’s the point? Learn to move on by forgiving.
  23. Travel, travel and travel if given the chance. Travel broaden your outlook towards life.
  24. Don’t smoke as you’ll regret it later. Give up now.
  25. Avoid nasty people like the plague. They cause unnecessary stress. Some people are just born nasty.
  26. Exercise regularly as you’ll reap the benefit later in life.
  27. Be at peace with God. Every cloud has a silver lining.
  28. Always be nice and polite with people although some will never reciprocate.
  29. Do a charity everyday however little. A smile can do wonders.
  30. Always arrive early for appointments. No such thing as JIT (Just In Time).
  31. A little grooming, proper clothing and a pleasant smell leave a good first impression. It open up many doors.
  32. Listen more and talk less. Abraham Lincoln once said, “Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt”.
  33. Think before you speak. Sometime silence can be deafening.
  34. Have more friends than enemies.
  35. Hold your temper. Angry people are not always wise as angry is a brief madness.
  36. Help people as much as you can but there’s always a limit to everything.
  37. Once in a while let your hair down and be silly. Don’t be too serious and enjoy life as it comes.
  38. Sadaqah sadaqah sadaqah. The many rezki bestowed upon you are not all yours.
  39. Forgive others (ni paling susah) as it will set you free.
  40. You can’t please everyone. Speak up, stick to your guns, assert yourself when you need to, demand respect, stay true to your values.

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